No, this is not one of THOSE stories, at least what might come to mind with such a title. But, this is a story of a nonprofit board (and there's many like this) that has gone wild with the founder and exec the chair of the board and the rest of the board either family members or close friends of the family. And a group making decisions that outsiders (pretty much everyone else) do not think in the best interest of mission or the organization's customers.
So, what can the outsiders do? Here's some thoughts:
1. Know your facts. Is what you think is wrong truly wrong? Are customers being harmed? Is money being misspent? Are bylaws being ignored or worked around? And, it's helpful if you are not the only one that knows the facts.
2. try to talk with board members about the facts, not your emotions -- not alone but perhaps in partnershp with someone who has a good relationship and will be viewed as a "friend" -- but this can't be a mean or angry or critical conversation -- it must be one that stresses mutual caring and a desire to see things set right. But if this doesn't work:
2. Talk to the press -- actively telling a factual story that can help get action.
3. Reach out to donors -- when donors stop giving, an organization stops functioning
4. Reach out to the State Attorney General -- again, with facts.
These are just a few ideas -- I'm certainly open to hearing from others about what they know to have been effective.